Used to be there was childhood and adulthood. Then there was old age. Then, about a hundred years ago they invented adolescence.
Now they’d added a new one.
So now David Brooks, emerging from behind the Times Select wall of silence, can write:
There used to be four common life phases: childhood, adolescence, adulthood and old age. Now, there are at least six: childhood, adolescence, odyssey, adulthood, active retirement and old age.
“Odyssey” is the new stage.
During this decade, 20-somethings go to school and take breaks from school. They live with friends and they live at home. They fall in and out of love. They try one career and then try another.
Well, yes. It’s true. But only to a limited extent. Liberal 20-somethings do all that.
And you can go back a couple of hundred years and see the odyssey years emerging in the children of the educated middle class in the early nineteenth century. Take Marx and Engels. They were traveling around Europe in their twenties having a grand old revolutionary time. Then they settled down to write a manifesto.
But there’s a problem. Adolescence and odyssey only make sense for the children of the educated middle class, the kind of people who do sixteen years of education straight off the bat and then look around for a creative quest to engage their adult years. For everyone else adolescence and odyssey are a waste of time,
Often the adolescence and odyssey years are worse than a waste of time, they are actually profoundly harmful.
Take the young man who hates high school. He’s really learning stuff, isn’t he, as he sits in high school wanting desperately to get out into the world.
Take the twenty-something slacker. He’s really having an odyssey hanging out in Austin, TX, or Seattle, WA, doing nothing much.
Take the thirty-ish career women. She’s got about eighteen months to get married and start a baby before fertility problems start to set in.
The worst thing is that this adolescence/odyssey culture has been forced on our youth more or less at the point of a gun. Unless you organize your life in the approved liberal fashion, this society really isn’t set up to help you.
In fact it actually hinders you. Suppose you are the son of a building contractor. Best thing for you would be to get out on the building site at about age 12 and drive equipment around. Maybe you would take time out for a few courses in drafting and business finance.
But you can’t do that. The operators’ union will be after you for underage equipment operation, and the school district will be after you for truancy.
So you are left just hanging out until you are allowed to start your life by the liberal gatekeepers.
Brooks is right. Our society does have an “odyssey” decade. But now we need to relax the liberal cultural hegemony so that other life paths are allowed.
Or even encouraged.